Do You Need Control?

One of the participants asked about a boy friend that was continually using trauma and drama to push her out of the relationship and pull her back in. I suggested she run the following process along with the out of control process.

What invention are you using to create the men you are choosing? Everything that brings up or lets down will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right and Wrong Good and Bad POD and POC all 100 shorts boys POVADs Creations Bases and Beyonds.

I asked her

“What do you love about controlling men?”

To which she responded, 

“When I control them, they cannot control me. When I manipulate them, they cannot manipulate me.”

I asked “Is that really true that they can’t control you from that place?  How much are you controlled by your need of control?” 

Let’s recall a conversation I had with Gary Douglas that went like this…

“Connor, you love controlling women.”

“Do you mean I love women that are controlling or that I love doing the control of women?”

“Yes”

“Fuck”

So I started running the process. “What do I love about controlling women? Everything that brings up times a godzillion will you destroy and uncreate it all? Right and Wrong Good and Bad POD and POC all 100 shorts boys POVADs Creations Bases and Beyonds. 

So you might also run the process, “What do you love about controlling men? Everything that brings up will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion? Right and Wrong Good and Bad POD and POC all 9 shorts boys POVADs and beyonds.

If you find you are someone that chooses the same in controlling women or men in relationships over and over, you might want to ask yourself the following questions;

Do I choose controlling men/women because;

• I think I’m too much?

• I have the point of view that I’m too out of control, so I need to be controlled?

• I know, I’m out of control, but I like to prove to myself, I’m out of control, so I’m looking for the most controlling man/woman to see if I can be out of control with the most controlling person to prove to me that I’m truly out of control because even the most controlling man/woman can't fucking control me, and that would mean I’m like the most uncontrollable person on the fucking planet!.

Everything that brought up or let down for you will you destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion?  Right and Wrong Good and Bad POD and POC all 100 shorts boys POVADs Creations Bases and Beyonds.