ARE YOU A RICH BITCH?

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Every time you judge you, you're trying to control you.

How many of you are using feelings to control you?

When we judge ourselves, we're controlling us and as we're doing these out of control processes, I personally have more and more gratitude than I have ever had in my life prior.

I feel (and I’m using that word on purpose) like I can't even begin to describe how much gratitude I have for all of you being here and reading this. These processes remove the judgment and allow the gratitude to come to the surface.

Letting Go of Language Control                                                                                                                                                                                              In 2019, I literally traveled the world facilitating, I spent 90% of my time with people that did not speak English. How on earth did I communicate?

How much control do you think you have, and do you try to create, with your speech and language? 

There are those that can and will choose, and there are those that will never choose, and when you discover who will never choose, you can control the fuck out of them, but you have always hated control because you can choose.

Everything that doesn't allow you to let your questions be the energy that would create the awareness you desire to have, and you know you can choose and create, as opposed to the contraction and control of the language that the words be, will you destroy and uncreate all that? Right and wrong, good and bad, pod and poc, all 100, shorts, boys, POVADS, creations, bases, and beyond.

If you'd like to explore how to choose without obligation, check out this blog: Choosing Without Obligation                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

The Trap of Right and Wrong                                                                                                                                                                                              

What you judge, you've decided is either right or wrong. If you've decided it's wrong, you've decided you are not going to be it because it's bad and wrong. So now you are not it, but you have now cut off your ability to be an infinite being. Which is that really even possible? So you create you as the judgment for what is right and wrong constantly because you're trying to judge every choice you make based on whether or not you are right or wrong. Then if you're autistic, you reach into everybody else's thoughts, feelings, and emotions to try and figure out from their point of view whether or not you're being that thing that you've judged as you should and should not be.

Out of Control = Infinite Awareness                                                                                                                                                                                              Out of control means you can choose to control those that are living in right and wrong without any need for a result,  but you get to know what the result will be because they're choosing based on right and wrong.

You can't try to get a specific result. It's not a reality, but when you're dealing with people who function from right and wrong, you can get a specific result, and you'll know exactly how, because they're functioning from judgement.

You'll be aware of what results you can get, and you'll be aware of the finite number of limited possibilities, and you'll be aware of what those possibilities are. Then you can play them like an instrument.

You just got to get good at playing that instrument.

Is Out of Control Actually Boring?                                                                                                                                                                                              During this conversation someone said, “That sounds boring,” and that they would be bored with being aware of so much and knowing so much.

How many of you have been implanted with the point of view that true out of control is boring? Is out of control boring, or is it truly boring when you're in right or wrong?

Creating with Energy, Not Control                                                                                                                                                                                              When you're beyond right and wrong, and you have a builder building you a cabinet, and you know, they're functioning from right and wrong. You know exactly what strings to pull in order to get them to build the cabinet you want.

Rather than trying to get them on the “same page” as you, and rather then trying to explain things to them from your point of view you which has worked how often? You can instead act and be in a manner that gets them to move for you instead of, and interestingly because of, the rightness of their point of view and their judgement.

Creating Greater Than You Imagined                                                                                                                    

In my access business, I've mostly only been interested in the people that can build me a cabinet that is greater than I've ever thought possible.

The cabinet can't show up if I'm trying to get it to look exactly the way that I want it to look.

Neither situation is right or wrong. You have different people, you can do different things. In some areas in your life, you can go, okay, I want this to look exactly the way I want it to look. This over here, I'm willing for it to not look exactly the way I want it to look.

All the while being willing for the thing you want to look the way you want it to look to change in any given moment.

That is what I would call Rich Bitch.

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